106. Reins of Happiness
O nce, an invader on horseback from Central Asia occupied Delhi and wished to hold a victory procession. An elephant was decorated and upon mounting it, he asked for the reins of the elephant. When told that it is controlled by a mahout, he jumped down and summoned for his horse, saying that he never rides on something whose reins are not in his hands. Similarly, we need to introspect as to whether we hold the reins to our happiness and emotions or someone else does. While we may believe we are in control, the reality is often otherwise. The reins may lie with a friend, someone in the family or workplace whose moods, words, opinions, praise and criticism make us happy or unhappy; could be an object like food, drink or physical possession; could be a favorable or unfavorable situation; even our past or future may hold these reins. In this context, Krishna says that he is a yogi who, at any time before liberation from the body, is able to master every impulse of lust ( k...