56. Four Stages of Life
K rishna says that the mind, which follows roving senses, carries away one’s intellect as the wind carries away the boat on the water (2.67). The wind is a metaphor for our desires which drives our mind as well as senses, thus making the intellect (boat) unstable. In the context of desires, life is divided into four stages namely Brahmacharya (bachelor), Grihasth (householder), Vanaprastha (facing forest) and Sannyas (renunciation) where divisions aren’t just based on age but also on the intensity of living. The first stage includes growing up, gathering theoretical knowledge, acquiring some basic skills and developing physical strength. In the second stage, it’s family, work, refining skills, gathering possessions and memories. This also includes exposure to various facets of life and gaining life experiences through pursuing passions and desires either with success or failure. Through this process, one attains a cocktail of knowledge, skill and life experiences whi...