9. Identifying Friend and Enemy
I n the Gita, Lord Krishna says you are your own friend, and you are your own enemy. The following story of the trapped monkey illustrates it well. Some nuts are kept in an earthen pot with a narrow mouth ( surahi ) in which the monkey’s hand barely fits. The monkey inserts its hand by squeezing through the mouth of the pot and grabs a fistful of nuts. As the fist is full, its size increases and so it can’t come out of the pot. The monkey makes all sorts of efforts to get the closed fist out of the pot. It keeps thinking that someone has laid a trap for it but fails to realise that the trap was set by itself. No amount of explanation would convince the monkey to let go of these nuts, instead, it would think that we are trying to grab them. From the outside, it seems quite simple that the monkey just needs to drop a couple of nuts to loosen its grip so that its hand can come out. But it is a challenge to realise this simple fact especially when we are trapped....